How to spot an abuser before it get serious

Being in love and have a history of being abused?
How can you prevent yourself from getting into the same situation again?

This is a very good and long row of questions to ask yourself:

How to spot an abusive partner on the first dates By Sam Vaknin

There is a certain pattern going on in potential abusive people.
Make sure that you recognize these!

Sam Vaknin is a keeper of not less then all nine personality-traits of a Narcissist, so we better listen well to his advices.

Soulmates

   "Soul mates aren`t the ones who make you happiest, no. 

They`re instead the ones that make you feel the most. 

Burning edges and stars. Old pains and pangs, captivation and beauty. Strain and shadows and worry and yearning. 

Sweetness and madness and dreamlike surrender. 

They hurl you into the abyss. They taste like hope."

     -Victoria Erickson                            

                                      El salvador

About Love

"The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves and not to twist them to fit our image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them"

-Thomas Morton

"If a writer falls in love with you, you can never die"

Wishes